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Welcome to BDSM-SoCal! A place to meet and chat with
Like-Minded people in the Southern California area. I've
noticed there are strong communities in LA and in San Diego, but
in between there's kind of a vortex. So... here's your
chance to Make it happen!
Introduce yourself on our
community board. Tell us a
little about you and the general area you're in. Not all
people are looking for relations, but friends are ALWAYS nice!
Let's grow our community here too!
NOTE: Even though this is a Southern California based Community,
ALL ARE WELCOME to visit and chat!
Just some general rules of
chat....
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ALL ARE WELCOME!!!! No matter where they
live. Treat everyone with
RESPECT and kindness ALWAYS This should be the ONLY
rule necessary, but since some people need to have things spelled out.... Please
continue...
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Ask on the Beach
for permission BEFORE sending private messages ALWAYS (it's the RESPECTFUL
thing to do... kinda like knocking on someone's door instead of barging
in)
Private messaging or DCC Chatting requires prior consent of the other
party, Dom OR sub. The ONLY exceptions to this rule are Beach @Operators,
who may be messaged at any time with channel concerns, or may message YOU
at any time to enforce channel policies. Any Beach comber who is
receiving unwanted private messages should first try to handle the
situation themselves using the /ignore feature. If you are unable to
handle the problem alone, bring it to the attention of an @Operator
via
private message. Repeat offenders of this policy will find themselves
banned from the Beach entirely.
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Obnoxious, Abusive
or Childish behavior is not acceptable EVER
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"Guest"
or "Anonymous" nicks are
not acceptable. When visiting a home, proper introductions are expected.
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Keep negativity
OFF THE BEACH - If there is a problem or a concern with someone or
something, bring it to the attention of an @OP in PRIVATE. The @OPs are
there to help you, so please don't hesitate to bring your concern to one
of them. We DO ask that you do it in private so others may continue to
enjoy the Beach.
Personal problems are just that, personal... we will not tolerate
infighting among Beach combers in the Beach Area. Take it private, or
take it off the Beach. If you are causing a disturbance on the Beach, we will
not hesitate to kick you. We will also not involve the Beach in personal
vendettas, if you are having a quarrel with another Beach comber do not
expect the Beach to intervene unless Beach rules are broken.
The Beach is a place for new beginnings. The past
is the past... leave it there!
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Our Beach is
focused on REAL LIFE BDSM, not of the Gorean Style. Gorean guests are welcome to
come in and observe/participate as long as they can do it in
our style - that
means that if a Gorean slave comes in she is to address the DOM's as "Sir"
not "Master". The subs/slaves on our Beach have worked hard for the right
to address a single Dom/me as Master/Mistress and it's not a title we want
to have used loosely. If a Gorean DOM comes in, He will need to understand
that He cannot demand the submissives on the Beach call Him "Master".
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Tasteful BDSM sceneing
is acceptable for pleasure and training,
but be aware... All scenes MUST have BDSM content, and if they get too
intense you may be asked to continue in PM.
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The Beach has an
OFFICIAL Radio station and ONLY DJ's from that station are allowed to add
the DJ initials to their nick when on the Beach. Other DJs are welcome as
long as they DO NOT use "DJ" as part of their nick or PROMOTE in any way,
shape or form any station other then the OFFICIAL Beach Radio station.
Repeatedly posting music (songs) on the Beach that are not being
played on the radio station is considered DISRESPECTFUL and RUDE and will
not be tolerated.
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No one under the
age of 18 will be allowed EVER. The Beach is for patrons over 18
(eighteen) years of age only, OR the required legal age in your
country/state of residence. If you are considered a minor, then please
EXIT NOW! You are more than welcome to return when you are the legal age.
Failure to observe
the rules will result in being kicked and/or banned from this channel.
Please feel free to
ask questions.
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