BDSM Checklist Sharing with someone... especially for the first time is very uncertain and a LOT scary. There are so many questions, and it does take time to get to know the likes/dislikes, and reactions of your partner. Communication is SO important!!! Some people feel uncomfortable talking about these things... others are just not sure 'what' to ask or tell. Please.... ALWAYS follow smart safety rules... if you need help deciding or KNOWING what is safe... come visit us in #Bondage&Discipline and chat. You/re important to us! To receive a text copy of this checklist, email your request to us, OR just print this page. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- This checklist should be filled out by a submissive and provided to their Dom/Top before playing with them. This will provide a quick "head-start" to identifying limits, negotiating and finding common ground for play. Dominants may wish to work through the checklist, to get a better handle on their specific interests. Switches should go through the checklist twice; one persons Dom and sub interests may be very different. For each item, you need to provide two answers: For experience, write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity. Mark N/A if it does not apply to your gender. For willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about DOING that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5. "?" means you don't understand what the item is attempting to describe. NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit). 0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would permit the Dominant to do it if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a "soft limit"). 1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you. 2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you. 3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis. 4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis. 5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible. Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to do only with your current sex partner(s), but not with casual play-partners. Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for your Dom to know in the margin to the right. For example under diapers you might wish to distinguish between "wetting" and "soiling". There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the sub is the recipient/target of the activity. Experience, Willingness Notes & Nuances yes/no, NO or 0-5 Abrasion: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Age play: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Anal sex: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Anal plugs (small): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Anal plugs (large): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Anal plug (public, under clothes): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Animal roles: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Aromas: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Asphyxiation: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Auctioned for charity: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Ball stretching: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Bathroom use control: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Beastiality: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Beating (soft): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Beating (hard): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Blindfolds: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Being serviced (sexual): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Being bitten: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Breast/chest bondage: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Breath control: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Branding: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Boot worship: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Bondage (light): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Bondage (heavy): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Bondage (multi-day): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Bondage (public, under clothing): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Breast whipping: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Brown showers (scat): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Cages (locked inside of): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Caning: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Castration fantasy: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Catheterization: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Cattle prod (electrical toy): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Cells/Closets (locked inside of): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Chains: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Chamber-pot use: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Chastity belts: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Chauffeuring: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Choking: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Chores (domestic service): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Clothespins: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Cock rings/straps: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Cock worship: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Collars (worn in private): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Collars (worn in public): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Competitions (with other Subs): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Corsets (wearing casually): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Corsets (trained waist reduction): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Cuffs (leather): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Cuffs (metal): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Cutting: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Diapers (wearing): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Diapers (wetting): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Diapers (soiling): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Dilation: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Dildoes: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Double penetration: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Electricity: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Enemas (for cleansing): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Enemas (retention/punishment): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Enforced chastity: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Erotic dance (for audience): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Examinations (physical): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Exercise (forced/required): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Exhibitionism (friends): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Exhibitionism (strangers): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Eye contact restrictions: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Face slapping: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Fantasy abandonment: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Fantasy rape: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Fantasy gang-rape: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Fear (being scared): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Fisting (anal): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Fisting (vaginal): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Flame play: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Following orders: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Foot worship: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Forced bedwetting: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Forced dressing: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Forced eating: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Forced homosexuality: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Forced heterosexuality: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Forced masturbation: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Forced nudity (private): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Forced nudity (around others): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Forced servitude: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Forced smoking: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Full head hoods: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Gags (cloth): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Gags (inflatable): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Gags (phallic): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Gags (rubber): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Gags (tape): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Gas masks: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Gates of Hell (male): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Genital sex: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Given away to another Dom (temp): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Given away to another Dom (perm): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Golden showers: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Gun play: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Hairbrush spankings: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Hair pulling: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Hand jobs (giving): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Hand jobs (receiving): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Harems (serving w/other subs): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Harnessing (leather): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Harnessing (rope): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Having food chosen for you: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Having clothing chosen for you: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Head (rcv fellatio/cunnilingus): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 High heel wearing: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 High heel worship: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Homage with tongue (non-sexual): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Hoods: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Hot oils (on genitals): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Hot waxing: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Housework (doing): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Human puppy dog: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Humiliation (private): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Humiliation (public): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Hypnotism: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Ice cubes: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Immobilization: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Infantilism: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Initiation rites: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Injections: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Interrogations: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Kidnapping: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Kneeling: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Knife play: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Leather clothing: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Leather restraints: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Lectures for misbehavior: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Licking (non-sexual): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Lingerie (wearing): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Manacles & Irons: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Manicures (giving): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Massage (giving): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Massage (receiving): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Medical scenes: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Modeling for erotic photos: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Mouth bits: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Mummification: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Name change (for scene): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Name change (legal, permanant): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Nipple clamps: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Nipple rings (piercings): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Nipple play/"torture": (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Nipple weights: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Oral/anal play (rimming): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Over-the-knee spanking: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Orgasm denial: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Orgasm control: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Outdoor scenes: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Outdoor sex: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Pain (severe): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Pain (mild): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Persona training (in scene): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Personality modification (RL): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Phone sex (serving Dom): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Phone sex (commercial provider): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Piercing (permanent): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Plastic surgery: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Prison scenes: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Prostitution (public pretense): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Prostitution (actual): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Pony slave: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Public exposure: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Punishment Scene: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Pussy/cock whipping: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Pussy worship: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Riding crops: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Rituals: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Religious scenes: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Restrictive rules on behavior: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Rubber/latex clothing: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Rope body harness: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Saran wrapping: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Scarification: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Scratching - getting: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Scratching - giving: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Sensory deprivation: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Serving: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Serving as art: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Serving as ashtray: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Serving as furniture: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Serving as a maid: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Serving as toilet (urine): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Serving as toilet (feces): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Serving as waitress/waiter: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Serving orally (sexual): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Serving other Doms (supervised): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Serving other Doms (unsupervised): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Sexual deprivation (short term): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Sexual deprivation (long term): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Shaving (body hair): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Shaving (head hair): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Skinny-dipping: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Sleep deprivation: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Sleepsacks: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Slutty clothing (private): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Slutty clothing (public): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Spandex clothing: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Spanking: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Speech restrictions (when, what): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Speculums (Ana)l: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Speculums (vaginal): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Spitting: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Spreader bars: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Standing in corner: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Stocks: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Straight jackets: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Strap-on-dildos (wearing): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Strapping (full body beating): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Suspension (upright): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Suspension (inverted): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Suspension (horizontal): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Supplying new partners for Dom: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Swallowing feces: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Swallowing semen: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Swallowing urine: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Swapping (with one other couple): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Swinging (multiple couples): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Tampon Training (in ass): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Tattooing: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Teasing: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 TENS Unit (electrical toy): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Thumbcuffs (metal): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Tickling: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Triple penetration: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Urethral Sounds (metal rods): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Uniforms: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Including others: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Vaginal dildo: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Verbal humiliation: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Vibrator on genitals: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Violet Wand (electricial toy): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Voyeurism (watching others): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Video (watching others): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Video (recordings of you): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Water torture: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Waxing (hair removal): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Wearing symbolic jewelery: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Weight gain (forced): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Weight loss (forced): (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Whipping: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Wooden paddles: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Wrestling: (experience)-> yes no (willingness)-> NO 0 - 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 Willingness quick-key: ? Don't understand this item. * I will do with current sex partner only. NO I WILL NOT DO that item under ANY circumstances (a hard limit). 0 No desire, don't like, will permit if special to Dom (a soft limit). 1 Don't want to do, but will. 2 Willing to do, but has no special appeal. 3 Usually LIKE doing, on an irregular/ occasional basis. 4 LIKE doing, would like it on a regular basis. 5 WILD TURN-ON, would like it as often as possible. 1999, 2000, 2001 #Bondage&Discipline - BDfriends